Reader Question: I suffer from Complex-Post Traumatic Stress. I have lots of abuse in the past from childhood to my adult years. I have had extreme trust issues for the last several years, but I want to be healed. I’ve gotten professional help off and on for years, but I know I will need more support because […]
Write Where It Hurts
God has used writing in my life in a powerful way. As a word-lover, an author, I’ve learned this, how sometimes we write for publication, yes, but how sometimes we write simply to reconcile. To uncover truths and connect dots in ways that sometimes aren’t possible until we sit quiet with the pressing questions.
Today, I’m passionate about writing as a healing tool. You’ll find Write Where It Hurts a connection point, an invitation to women and conversations that bring healing. We need that, don’t we? A place where can we can drop all the masks and cut through the hard stuff.
Come join us. In our online community here, you’ll find hope, encouragement, and practical tools along with a challenge to live intentionally. Pull up a chair. Grab a spot of tea, or your favorite java. Be encouraged and inspired as you connect with other brave-hearted women who have faced unfathomable trials with courage. Risk the writing challenges, and be rewarded with a fresh perspective of your own.
Why we must keep telling our story
“See, healing comes through story.” Our youth pastor, the speaker for the weekend, halted his pacing back and forth across the stage to let his words sink in. “People aren’t moved until they hear the Story. So share your story!” I thought about that for a long time after he had moved on to other […]
When You Want to Weight the Moments
I watched his face like a sentinel, him facing the crowd with bravely squared shoulders, his brother close behind, whispering, “Be strong. Stay strong.” Now and then he would close his eyes, take a deep breath, and slowly exhale. His jaw tightened and his heart raced, but he was ready. I didn’t have to […]
Ask the Counselor: Is It Possible for Memories of Abuse to be Forgotten and then Remembered?
Reader Question: I’m hoping you can help me. I have no memory of anything happening, but I believe it’s possible I was sexually abused as a child. Perhaps at a friend’s house. When I consider the puzzle pieces, it all points to that possibility. If I start from the place of accepting that I […]
Ask the Counselor: How Do I {Really} Release My Burdens to God?
Reader Question: I have asked others this question and there seems to be no answer. It seems silly, like it should be easy for me to figure out, but I can’t. I am bipolar, mostly the depressive side of it, suffer from debilitating Fibromyalgia, have several emotional/mental issues, and right now am at my […]
When Your Eyes Adjust {Too Well} to the Dark
I’ve been practicing my night vision again. It’s become a regular thing, this stumbling my way in blackness. You see, my body simply refuses to let me sleep through the night any more, constantly waking me with these middle-of-the-night bladder urges. {Menopause is not for the weak of heart!} But it doesn’t seem fair […]
Dancing Upon Barren Land: An interview with Lesli A. Westfall
When experiencing infertility, a woman’s feelings about herself, her relationships with others and her belief in God become confused and complicated. Having experienced these emotions herself, Lesli A. Westfall has written Dancing Upon Barren Land: Prayer, Scripture Reflections, and Hope for Infertility. Q: Can you tell us a little bit about your own struggle with […]
The Church It Was Never Meant to Be
The Church. A place of love and joy and peace. A sanctuary of safety. A haven where the flock gathers and works together and loves one another with the love of Jesus and builds one another up and spurs one another on and helps one another grow. At least that’s the idea. Sadly, this is […]
When the Family Tree has {potentially} Rotten Roots
Reader Question: I’m 72-years old and I have been tracing my family tree on Ancestry.com for the past several years. I am the oldest surviving member from both the maternal and fraternal side of my family. My brother (two years younger) found out that he and I have different fathers making us half siblings. Here […]
When We Whisper Thanks into the Whirlwind
She graduated from high school on Friday and turned 18 on Saturday, then on Sunday spirited me out for a surprise Mother’s Day lunch at Piccadilly because she knew it was where my mother and I always went. She’s my baby-girl-become-woman, my soul friend who knows what my heartbeat sounds like from the inside. I […]